hodlbod on Nostr: I know what you mean, and I think it's definitely an exception to what I'm saying. ...

I know what you mean, and I think it's definitely an exception to what I'm saying. I'm thinking more about the context of a community relay, which would have standards other than "so toxic you don't even want to think about it". For that stuff, out of band or anonymous reporting is definitely better. This is why Coracle sends reports to tagr rather than publish them normally. It's a very hard problem, and definitely important to think about.