Dissident Sound on Nostr: boundaries can't exist without a cost to breaking them. what is the cost to an ...
boundaries can't exist without a cost to breaking them. what is the cost to an attractive woman if you catch her cheating ? unless she's living in with you - none. and even if she is - you may not even be able to kick her out legally for like a month - more than enough time for her to find your replacement.
guys who don't know game - keep failing at it until they either give up or learn. if they learn now they're putting in constant work just to have sex with women whom they hate and despise. this is only worth it if you're a sadist and your goal is to hurt women.
for example a sadist like my father would pretend to not know the woman is cheating, convince her to move in with him, ruin her relationships with anybody who might give her a place to stay, and then "discover" she is cheating and kick her out making her homeless. if you have a personality like my father does - who only lives to hurt other people - then dating is worth it for you because after all you need to meet people in order to hurt them.
however if you're a normal person and sadism is not a factor then a relationship has two components - love and sex. you can get "sex" from porn ( or escorts if you're rich ) at a lower cost than from "relationships" ... and as for love it is not really possible anymore because whereas in the past you had maybe a 50/50 chance of being hurt if you fell in love with a woman now it is closer to 95% because they read in magazines how they should have at least 25 partners before they marry and there is never any price for them to cheat but if you lay a finger on them ( literally lay a finger ) you will be in prison if they choose to press charges which they will unless they are using you.
and so guys watch Anime as the closest substitute for love they can get. i don't watch Anime but i do enjoy a good romantic tragedy ( film ) like "Anna Karenina" ... preferably when one that is erotic. this allows guys to avoid completely dying inside without putting themselves into harm's way.
oddly Anime is considered acceptable even though it is a completely fake version of love whereas Porn is considered not acceptable even though it is pretty much 100% real orgasm.
probably because only people who are in denial feel the urge to share their denial with others to reassure each other that they are not in denial. whereas a person jacking off to porn doesn't need anyone's approval and is not interested in forming online communities with other losers on the Fediverse.
guys who don't know game - keep failing at it until they either give up or learn. if they learn now they're putting in constant work just to have sex with women whom they hate and despise. this is only worth it if you're a sadist and your goal is to hurt women.
for example a sadist like my father would pretend to not know the woman is cheating, convince her to move in with him, ruin her relationships with anybody who might give her a place to stay, and then "discover" she is cheating and kick her out making her homeless. if you have a personality like my father does - who only lives to hurt other people - then dating is worth it for you because after all you need to meet people in order to hurt them.
however if you're a normal person and sadism is not a factor then a relationship has two components - love and sex. you can get "sex" from porn ( or escorts if you're rich ) at a lower cost than from "relationships" ... and as for love it is not really possible anymore because whereas in the past you had maybe a 50/50 chance of being hurt if you fell in love with a woman now it is closer to 95% because they read in magazines how they should have at least 25 partners before they marry and there is never any price for them to cheat but if you lay a finger on them ( literally lay a finger ) you will be in prison if they choose to press charges which they will unless they are using you.
and so guys watch Anime as the closest substitute for love they can get. i don't watch Anime but i do enjoy a good romantic tragedy ( film ) like "Anna Karenina" ... preferably when one that is erotic. this allows guys to avoid completely dying inside without putting themselves into harm's way.
oddly Anime is considered acceptable even though it is a completely fake version of love whereas Porn is considered not acceptable even though it is pretty much 100% real orgasm.
probably because only people who are in denial feel the urge to share their denial with others to reassure each other that they are not in denial. whereas a person jacking off to porn doesn't need anyone's approval and is not interested in forming online communities with other losers on the Fediverse.