Prince Aleph on Nostr: The pic below sums it up: Realistically this is why no one wants to date anymore. ...
The pic below sums it up: Realistically this is why no one wants to date anymore. It's just a pain in the ass. There are much more direct routes to the same thing (getting off).
Think about it: if you date a woman who's actually attractive, and that's not an "average" girl in the USA - it's more like the top 10-20% at most, you will be sharing her with other men, whatever you may think. It was acceptable to believe otherwise, maybe, 10-15 years ago before manosphere knowledge was mainstream, but not now. And, you will have learned this the hard way if you dated attractive women already. There is simply every incentive for these women to juggle men, and no countervailing force that would even begin to change the effect, especially since promiscuity is now the "old normal" and widely socially accepted.
De jure, polygamy is illegal, but only if you actually *marry* multiple women. De facto, it happens all the time, and what you have with the women of today is them building what amount to reverse harems or stud farms. Again, of the public that actually dates, we have the receipts now (data from dating apps), if our experience wasn't enough. For young women who do use dating apps, an average case of hookups is several dozen per year. We also know from sociological research that the more partners a woman has had, the less likely she will be able to have lasting relationships.
I would love to believe that "healthy relationships" are possible in our time, as many tell me this is so, and yet I see little evidence for it.
Think about it: if you date a woman who's actually attractive, and that's not an "average" girl in the USA - it's more like the top 10-20% at most, you will be sharing her with other men, whatever you may think. It was acceptable to believe otherwise, maybe, 10-15 years ago before manosphere knowledge was mainstream, but not now. And, you will have learned this the hard way if you dated attractive women already. There is simply every incentive for these women to juggle men, and no countervailing force that would even begin to change the effect, especially since promiscuity is now the "old normal" and widely socially accepted.
De jure, polygamy is illegal, but only if you actually *marry* multiple women. De facto, it happens all the time, and what you have with the women of today is them building what amount to reverse harems or stud farms. Again, of the public that actually dates, we have the receipts now (data from dating apps), if our experience wasn't enough. For young women who do use dating apps, an average case of hookups is several dozen per year. We also know from sociological research that the more partners a woman has had, the less likely she will be able to have lasting relationships.
I would love to believe that "healthy relationships" are possible in our time, as many tell me this is so, and yet I see little evidence for it.