Willow 🏳️⚧️ on Nostr: Today I pulled on boymode, but I cannot take out my new earrings. I took my efforts ...
Today I pulled on boymode, but I cannot take out my new earrings. I took my efforts to my wife for confirmation that I’d pass as a boy, and my wife looked at me and was like, eh. Kinda.
I protested that with my hair in my traditional dysphoria low-pony, the earrings were just a callback to my California upbringing.
She said, yeah, but since you’ve started meds the lines of your face have gotten more feminine.
WHAT!? I haven’t really picked up on that, cause of all the glaring at my beard shadow and such, but wow, 57 days on HRT and I have (very minor, hopefully the start of many more…) changes to the shape of my face!
I mean, do I really? Did losing some weight pulled in my cheeks? Is it the meds? I don’t know!! But we’ve been together 15 years, and if she says my face does a noticeably less credible job of looking like a boy, I’ll take it!
Post script: my boy-formance was quite effective. Also left me feeling emotionally tired, so we ordered in and I changed into me-clothes. 🥰
I protested that with my hair in my traditional dysphoria low-pony, the earrings were just a callback to my California upbringing.
She said, yeah, but since you’ve started meds the lines of your face have gotten more feminine.
WHAT!? I haven’t really picked up on that, cause of all the glaring at my beard shadow and such, but wow, 57 days on HRT and I have (very minor, hopefully the start of many more…) changes to the shape of my face!
I mean, do I really? Did losing some weight pulled in my cheeks? Is it the meds? I don’t know!! But we’ve been together 15 years, and if she says my face does a noticeably less credible job of looking like a boy, I’ll take it!
Post script: my boy-formance was quite effective. Also left me feeling emotionally tired, so we ordered in and I changed into me-clothes. 🥰