gek on Nostr: Depends on definition I guess. If it’s the internal process of letting go of anger ...
Depends on definition I guess.
If it’s the internal process of letting go of anger and resentment. Well, yes and no. Yes, as living the resentment and anger constantly is useless and detrimental. No, as that anger is there for a reason. The behavior of the other person is perceived as an obstacle between us and joy. If the behavior persists, joy cannot be achieved. The behavior has to be eliminated, thus the feeling of anger and disgust.
If it’s excusing the other person’s behavior. Well, fuck no. That has to be earned over time. A lot of time
If it’s the internal process of letting go of anger and resentment. Well, yes and no. Yes, as living the resentment and anger constantly is useless and detrimental. No, as that anger is there for a reason. The behavior of the other person is perceived as an obstacle between us and joy. If the behavior persists, joy cannot be achieved. The behavior has to be eliminated, thus the feeling of anger and disgust.
If it’s excusing the other person’s behavior. Well, fuck no. That has to be earned over time. A lot of time