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How to understand women 😅
If a woman is telling you about a problem, start by just hearing her out. Or ask, "do you want me to listen, or help you solve this?"
We usually wanna be heard out before we're open to a solution, and sometimes, we solve it ourselves by being heard out.
Women cry to let out tension, so sometimes, just let her cry for a moment and ask if she feels better, instead of making fun of her for crying.
When women get pressured, we get stupid. Allison Armstrong mentioned this, and it clicked for me. My husband tried it out, and realized how true it is.
If I get pressured, it gets harder for me to think straight and to come up with the right words. It's harder to make decisions and everything is going to take longer than if I have some space, take a deep breath and let it out.
If a woman is telling you about a problem, start by just hearing her out. Or ask, "do you want me to listen, or help you solve this?"
We usually wanna be heard out before we're open to a solution, and sometimes, we solve it ourselves by being heard out.
Women cry to let out tension, so sometimes, just let her cry for a moment and ask if she feels better, instead of making fun of her for crying.
When women get pressured, we get stupid. Allison Armstrong mentioned this, and it clicked for me. My husband tried it out, and realized how true it is.
If I get pressured, it gets harder for me to think straight and to come up with the right words. It's harder to make decisions and everything is going to take longer than if I have some space, take a deep breath and let it out.