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How to tell the difference between a Good Man, and a Nice π Guy π π€ When π you ask a man π to π€ help you with something, a π₯ good man will tell you Yes, because π he wants to π help you, but a nice guy will say Yes, because π he has a hard π€ time saying No. The π Nice Guy will go away grumbling about π it, whereas the Good Man π will be proud of having helped π₯ you. π The Good Man understands and values boundaries, whereas the π Nice π― Guy π has a π₯ hard time with boundaries. The Good Man will ask π you on a date, whereas the π Nice π― Guy will ask you to hang π₯ out. π― He might as you to coffee, but heβll rarely use the π words date. There π― is π a scale between π being Nice Guy and Good Man, and most Nice Guys π― move towards being Good Men as they grow in confidence, but π if youβre a π lady picking a potential spouse, donβt pick a Nice π Guy hoping that heβll chance, pick a man who π is already at the π level you want him, as expecting him to chance is π one of the top mistakes π― women make when π€ choosing π a π partner.
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