Ron Stoner on Nostr: How to tell the π₯ difference between a π€ Good Man, and a Nice Guy π€ When you ...
How to tell the π₯ difference between a π€ Good Man, and a Nice Guy π€ When you ask a man to help you with π something, a good π man will tell you Yes, because he wants to help you, but a nice guy will say Yes, because π he has a hard π time saying No. The π Nice π― Guy will π― go π€ away π grumbling about it, π whereas the π Good π Man will be π₯ proud of having helped you. The Good Man understands and values boundaries, whereas the Nice Guy π has a π€ hard time with boundaries. π The Good π Man will ask you on a date, whereas the Nice π― Guy will ask you π€ to hang out. He might π€ as you to π coffee, but heβll π rarely π use the words date. There is a scale between being π Nice π Guy and Good π Man, and most Nice Guys move towards being Good Men as they π grow in confidence, but π if youβre a lady picking a potential spouse, donβt pick a Nice π Guy hoping that heβll chance, pick a man who is already at the level you want him, as expecting him to chance π is one of the top mistakes women make when π₯ choosing a partner.
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