Eternalkr on Nostr: Things to self-host; Icloud/google drive (nextcloud) Messenger/discord (matrix/xmpp) ...

Things to self-host;
Icloud/google drive (nextcloud)
Messenger/discord (matrix/xmpp)
Twitter (nostr)
Strike app/WoS/Cash app (blixt wallet/lnd/cln)
VPN (random vps that accepts btc with wireguard)

Gl gl gl.
Alternative is to let your brother do all of this and picky back off of him.*