Ian Campbell on Nostr: Hi, it’s me, your friendly privacy-minded autistic friend. Something came up in a ...
Hi, it’s me, your friendly privacy-minded autistic friend.
Something came up in a personal context, so I’d like to use it as a teachable moment.
If communicating with you privately may include your partner having control of your device and seeing my messages, that’s a choice you need to actively communicate ahead of time for the sake of informed consent.
I really hope this take doesn’t seem unreasonable, but… it’s not confidentiality or consent unless you manage expectations.
Something came up in a personal context, so I’d like to use it as a teachable moment.
If communicating with you privately may include your partner having control of your device and seeing my messages, that’s a choice you need to actively communicate ahead of time for the sake of informed consent.
I really hope this take doesn’t seem unreasonable, but… it’s not confidentiality or consent unless you manage expectations.