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Esharastr
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2024-10-01 16:02:53

Esharastr on Nostr: You guys still don’t understand what I’m saying, nor did you properly read what I ...

You guys still don’t understand what I’m saying, nor did you properly read what I wrote. I wasn’t even disagreeing with you - but I don’t have time, nor do I care to fully explain it over and over, sorry 🫂

Who cares what I think anyway, I’m just a women. I’m wrong. Not like I know anything about how some women on this earth like to communicate or what makes SOME of us feel special. INCONCEIVABLE.

I couldn’t possibly know what true love is, without you telling me. It’s not like everything I do is motivated by love. I mean, sure I have had hand written love letters and poems exchanged for almost 3 years with an old boyfriend I loved and who loved me, who actually read way more poetry than me. But other than him, no other man on this planet would do that, right? There are no men on nostr who have ever written poetry for someone they loved, that’s for sure, because every guy in the world is the same. Fact. Would be a waste of time, they’d never do it.

Despite what my old friend Joe (who’s in a 14 year relationship) used to tell me, compromise isn’t key, it’s all about how you want to express love and receive it, the other person be damned.

Like, imagine if music was poetry and musicians wrote songs about people they loved or heartbreak? Nobody has time for that, and who would even want to listen to it? I think women would hate love songs. It would be so unrelatable and make no money. Nobody would memorise the lyrics and it’s got no future. Hope they never do it.

Love poems are only 4000 years old too, fucking Hollywood trying to brainwash us even back then. And of course you know me really well, how I express love and like love expressed back to me. How I was first introduced to love - early teens reading some asshole named Shakespeare, this lady called Jane Austen and some bloke named Ernest Hemingway. I know, they sound like a right bunch of tossers, honestly. They obviously know nothing about love. Nobody has ever resonated with and related to their writing.

It’s always been a conspiracy by centralised media to get us to sit down and use our naturally creative human brains - can you believe it? Those bastards. Why would we want to tell someone in a creative way how much you love them? All humans communicate and express love the same way, right? There is no other love language, but the practical (though lovely) serious foundational love language. Passion, fun and romance is overrated. Butterflies feel awful anyway.

You didn’t hear it from me, but I heard Lord Byron used a female ghost writer. He’s a man! Men don’t talk about love. INCONCEIVABLE. Bloody Hollywood, eh. You guys know best so I’ll let you carry on.

You’re right, I will never find a man that would write me poetry, again. I love being misunderstood and loved how condescending your note was, it really highlighted how well you guys communicate. I’m not allowed to have my own opinion or a personal experience that are true to me. I’m just wrong. Honestly, never listen to a women, we are always wrong about love and communication 🫡 trust me, I know.

Don’t worry about that sound, it’s just my mic dropping.
You're definitely confusing the idea of what true love ACTUALLY is with what society and centralized media have told you what it should be. Real life is not Hollywood. I don't know a single man (myself included) that will take the time out of his day to sit down and write a poem for the woman he is in love with. How he treats her, how they solve problems together, how they work together to achieve their life goals, and how tolerant they are of each other's imperfections is the "language of love." Trust me, I know.
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