annsofinovelist on Nostr: Do you know how to fight well? Comedians usually joke about how they had some fight ...
Do you know how to fight well?
Comedians usually joke about how they had some fight with their spouse but it's rarely very healthy.
Sure, a fight can get heated and boundaries are crossed, but if the purpose is to get to the bottom of the issue, if humility is added, and self reflection, even in the midst of arguing, it will help end it much faster and healthier than if two people are set on "winning", refusing to consider the other persons side.
Then, once it's concluded, apologizing for any boundaries you crossed, and things you said that hurt, or even to hurt, the other person, and asking for their forgiveness. Now this is how to build a strong and healthy and long lasting relationship!
Instead of focusing on winning the argument, the focus is on loving the other person and reconciling with them, and maybe even to learn something new about how they work.
Comedians usually joke about how they had some fight with their spouse but it's rarely very healthy.
Sure, a fight can get heated and boundaries are crossed, but if the purpose is to get to the bottom of the issue, if humility is added, and self reflection, even in the midst of arguing, it will help end it much faster and healthier than if two people are set on "winning", refusing to consider the other persons side.
Then, once it's concluded, apologizing for any boundaries you crossed, and things you said that hurt, or even to hurt, the other person, and asking for their forgiveness. Now this is how to build a strong and healthy and long lasting relationship!
Instead of focusing on winning the argument, the focus is on loving the other person and reconciling with them, and maybe even to learn something new about how they work.