Jackie on Nostr: I don't welcome some women's attitude like "I'm trying to be sexy, but I'm not ...

I don't welcome some women's attitude like "I'm trying to be sexy, but I'm not inviting you to have sexual interaction (skinship, kiss, etc) with me." I mean, I get it. (I really think it's stupid, though.) Some women think being flirtatious means being attractive. They don't know how to be attractive without adding sexual context to their gaze, conversation style, sense of fashion, body language, ... I don't wanna sound like a kkondae, but I really think it's a result of education. If you are raised in an environment where you can separate sexual context from ordinary daily life, you don't approach everything as a potential seed for a sexual interaction. This is not about suppressing sexual desires like what Freudians may claim. We're not living in the Victorian era anymore. I mean, you don't wanna change sexual gaze with your bus driver you see every day on your way to work. Do you? You may just wanna exchange friendly banter to lighten up the mood in busy mornings. Decent people have ability to choose optimal TPO for their sexual interaction with anyone. And this choice needs to be respected. People's rights to have such choice need to be protected.