Anonymous on Nostr: I make a lot of assumptions. Sometimes I’ll catch myself in this type of ...
I make a lot of assumptions. Sometimes I’ll catch myself in this type of scenario…
“If told X about Y, they’d probably say…”
Stop right there. You don’t know what they’d say until you tell them and they respond! Otherwise it’s all a made up scenario!
What you think someone thinks, is what YOU think!
I call this all “recreational anger”. It’s l getting mad over nothing as a means of justifying angst or residual anger. It’s almost never directed at who you’re thinking about or what you “should have” said.
Assumptions, man. Can’t make assumptions in your head and then run with them as if they’re reality. Because they’re almost always wrong.
“If told X about Y, they’d probably say…”
Stop right there. You don’t know what they’d say until you tell them and they respond! Otherwise it’s all a made up scenario!
What you think someone thinks, is what YOU think!
I call this all “recreational anger”. It’s l getting mad over nothing as a means of justifying angst or residual anger. It’s almost never directed at who you’re thinking about or what you “should have” said.
Assumptions, man. Can’t make assumptions in your head and then run with them as if they’re reality. Because they’re almost always wrong.