Vixen 💜 on Nostr: I can remember from my early 20s that people would speak about 30 like a death ...
I can remember from my early 20s that people would speak about 30 like a death sentence for (especially queer) sexuality, the age after which that your body starts to get less physically appealing.
I remember it feeling like a timebomb back then, the deadline before which you needed to have all your fun.
I'm not quite 30 yet, but I'm getting closer, and many of my friends already are - so I'd like to say that if you're in your early 20s and feeling a similar pressure, please know that it's unfounded.
You'll likely find that some of the people you find most attractive have years far in excess of 30, even if they don't openly broadcast it.
If you take care of your body, it'll age gracefully long into the future - you'll desire and be desired long past whatever age you're fixated on.
Personally, I'm planning to continue listing my age indefinitely and encouraging others to do the same to help reassure somebody like my former self that 30 isn't actually old.
I remember it feeling like a timebomb back then, the deadline before which you needed to have all your fun.
I'm not quite 30 yet, but I'm getting closer, and many of my friends already are - so I'd like to say that if you're in your early 20s and feeling a similar pressure, please know that it's unfounded.
You'll likely find that some of the people you find most attractive have years far in excess of 30, even if they don't openly broadcast it.
If you take care of your body, it'll age gracefully long into the future - you'll desire and be desired long past whatever age you're fixated on.
Personally, I'm planning to continue listing my age indefinitely and encouraging others to do the same to help reassure somebody like my former self that 30 isn't actually old.