bitterblossom on Nostr: BoredCream rae nnia is useless for discussion because they only care about ...
BoredCream (nprofile…33td) rae (nprofile…ql6s) nnia is useless for discussion because they only care about appearances (the flags and labels) and being safely censored so nobody ever gets upset or wrongthinks. they also tend to just shut down completely when a discussion or basic logic turns against their emotions-based opinions. (disclaimer: broad statement averaged across years of interaction and different users and its admin).
rapedotpet doesnt have any grand purpose besides being a place be for those of us who wanna be here. (which is honestly what most instances should be, you dont need hyper fixation focus on things to function, thats what threads and friend-groups are for.
curate your experience on fedi. it may not be great, but hashtags do function, youve got the mute/block abilities, you can wise up and choose to speak to certain people about certain topics and avoid those people for other topics... and if you see something you dont wanna deal with on timeline, scroll past it.
if people want to have serious discussions on fedi, all they have to do is try. make a thread, tag some people you want involved or just chuck it out into the wild and see who bites. or join one thats already there.
speaking on behalf of the oldfags, weve had our serious discussions. lots of them. years of them but weve gotten tired of rehashing them bc theres mostly just trolls and antis who pretend to want to discuss things. the newer gens of pedi users missed that period, and most of them are "sheltered" and havent made much effort to have serious discussions about serious topics. which is fine. this is a social media forum. you dont have to be serious.
but if you want "serious discussions" and something besides hornyposting or the petty dramas, you have to go do that. complaining that its boring, that nobody is discussing anything... yeah, we know. be the change you want to see.
rapedotpet doesnt have any grand purpose besides being a place be for those of us who wanna be here. (which is honestly what most instances should be, you dont need hyper fixation focus on things to function, thats what threads and friend-groups are for.
curate your experience on fedi. it may not be great, but hashtags do function, youve got the mute/block abilities, you can wise up and choose to speak to certain people about certain topics and avoid those people for other topics... and if you see something you dont wanna deal with on timeline, scroll past it.
if people want to have serious discussions on fedi, all they have to do is try. make a thread, tag some people you want involved or just chuck it out into the wild and see who bites. or join one thats already there.
speaking on behalf of the oldfags, weve had our serious discussions. lots of them. years of them but weve gotten tired of rehashing them bc theres mostly just trolls and antis who pretend to want to discuss things. the newer gens of pedi users missed that period, and most of them are "sheltered" and havent made much effort to have serious discussions about serious topics. which is fine. this is a social media forum. you dont have to be serious.
but if you want "serious discussions" and something besides hornyposting or the petty dramas, you have to go do that. complaining that its boring, that nobody is discussing anything... yeah, we know. be the change you want to see.