Rachel on Nostr: When I first joined the fediverse through Imouto about a month ago, I was surprised ...

When I first joined the fediverse through Imouto about a month ago, I was surprised how many transfem MAPs there were compared to cisgender men. It made me feel out of place, like I was "just" a creepy man, not fun or enticing in my own right.

I was out walking tonight when it clicked: cis male MAPs aren't a minority. Most of them aren't attention whores. Trans women appear to be engaging more regularly because they are more likely to seek attention.

After realizing that, I'm proud to be a man who is an attention whore.