HODL on Nostr: I used to worry about other people first. What do they think? What do they want? What ...

I used to worry about other people first.

What do they think?
What do they want?
What do they feel?

Nowadays I think of myself first.

What do I think?
What do I want?
What do I feel?

Before i used to try and control everything and now I let others worry about themselves and I do the same.