☾ on Nostr: if you are not in a relatively good place physically, emotionally and financially ...

if you are not in a relatively good place physically, emotionally and financially simply do not bring children into that situation. i understand life happens and sometimes you’ll be in situations where you can’t provide all that for them, but don’t intentionally bring them in knowing that this is how your situation is. they deserve a happy and safe life and people often underestimate how profound the effects of growing up in an unstable environment can have on someone. you should not have children for selfish reasons.