terra tauri (she/her) on Nostr: you only know for sure if someone is an ally when it has real implications. ...

you only know for sure if someone is an ally when it has real implications.

cosplaying as an ally when it doesn't matter is easy.

being an ally when it's inconvenient is hard. i have been fortunate to have several of these people in my life!

being an ally when the choice is "do the right thing or help your friend" is a true test. i have had one person do this for me and i will trust him forever.

don't be fooled by cosplayers.