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How to be a good woman 💃
Learn to say No, kindly. Don’t obviscate, but simply let your Yes be a Yes that you can handle, and your No a No you can stand by. Don’t compromise if it’s going to take more from you than you have to give.
Learn that not all men are Good Men. Yes, they’ll be kind to you because you bring kindness out of them, but that doesn’t mean they’re a good spouse option. If a man doesn’t respect your boundaries, let him go. He can stay an acquaintance, but not a lover.
Decide what you want out of life, and only adapt if it’s bringing you in a better direction than you first imagined.
Forgive quickly, but expect a chance before you put yourself in the same situation. If someone can’t handle your boundaries, in a certain area, don’t invite that person into that area of your life until they display a change.
Be confident in your abilities. You have skills others don’t, and that’s good. Be confident in those skills, but don’t mock others who don’t have them. Instead, encourage and teach them what you know and can do.
Learn to celebrate the little things, and encourage people who are trying, even if it doesn't go well.
Learn to ask if they want help/input, instead of giving unsolicited advice.
Learn the differences between men and woman, and celebrate men instead of cutting them down.
Speak truth even when if it's uncomfortable or scary. Be authentic.
Learn to say No, kindly. Don’t obviscate, but simply let your Yes be a Yes that you can handle, and your No a No you can stand by. Don’t compromise if it’s going to take more from you than you have to give.
Learn that not all men are Good Men. Yes, they’ll be kind to you because you bring kindness out of them, but that doesn’t mean they’re a good spouse option. If a man doesn’t respect your boundaries, let him go. He can stay an acquaintance, but not a lover.
Decide what you want out of life, and only adapt if it’s bringing you in a better direction than you first imagined.
Forgive quickly, but expect a chance before you put yourself in the same situation. If someone can’t handle your boundaries, in a certain area, don’t invite that person into that area of your life until they display a change.
Be confident in your abilities. You have skills others don’t, and that’s good. Be confident in those skills, but don’t mock others who don’t have them. Instead, encourage and teach them what you know and can do.
Learn to celebrate the little things, and encourage people who are trying, even if it doesn't go well.
Learn to ask if they want help/input, instead of giving unsolicited advice.
Learn the differences between men and woman, and celebrate men instead of cutting them down.
Speak truth even when if it's uncomfortable or scary. Be authentic.