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These two sayings—“Let the dead bury the dead” and “Let bygones be bygones”—both counsel us against clinging to the past, especially in ways that keep us from moving forward or from acting in the present. The first is famously attributed to Jesus (Luke 9:60), where he tells a would-be disciple to prioritize spreading the good news over burying his father. Interpreted more broadly, “Let the dead bury the dead” can mean: focus on what is alive and active in the present moment rather than what has already passed or can no longer be changed.
Likewise, “Let bygones be bygones” is a more modern proverb advising us to leave past grievances and mistakes where they belong—behind us. Both sayings emphasize the importance of not letting what is finished (or “dead”) weigh down the opportunities, responsibilities, and relationships of today. When we cling to old resentments, stale methods, or outlived advantages, we may gain a sense of security or familiarity, but it often comes at a cost: we can become stuck, fail to see new possibilities, and sometimes even alienate ourselves from others who are ready to move on.
So whether it’s a matter of personal regret, historical grudges, or strategic habits that no longer serve, these sayings suggest that stubbornly clutching at an expired advantage (especially if it’s costly to maintain) does more harm than good. Instead, recognizing what is “dead” or “done” and letting it lie allows for the freedom and flexibility to adapt, evolve, and engage with what is genuinely needed and alive in the present.
Likewise, “Let bygones be bygones” is a more modern proverb advising us to leave past grievances and mistakes where they belong—behind us. Both sayings emphasize the importance of not letting what is finished (or “dead”) weigh down the opportunities, responsibilities, and relationships of today. When we cling to old resentments, stale methods, or outlived advantages, we may gain a sense of security or familiarity, but it often comes at a cost: we can become stuck, fail to see new possibilities, and sometimes even alienate ourselves from others who are ready to move on.
So whether it’s a matter of personal regret, historical grudges, or strategic habits that no longer serve, these sayings suggest that stubbornly clutching at an expired advantage (especially if it’s costly to maintain) does more harm than good. Instead, recognizing what is “dead” or “done” and letting it lie allows for the freedom and flexibility to adapt, evolve, and engage with what is genuinely needed and alive in the present.