Margaret Sefton on Nostr: Sometimes you have to remember that it isn't normal that individual needs go ignored ...

Sometimes you have to remember that it isn't normal that individual needs go ignored when you're in a grandiose narcissist's family. One is subsumed in the narrative that is often larger than life, grandiose, super-spiritual. While there are end-of-life plans for some to be buried together, there may be no mention of others, where they will be buried, what will happen to them. The physical more granular details are eschewed for a story of glory. I am mourning Mom, but hoping I maintain sanity.