Abandoned America on Nostr: 1/ I'm seeing a lot of talk (still!) of defederating mastodon.social over the recent ...

1/ I'm seeing a lot of talk (still!) of defederating mastodon.social over the recent spam attacks. I have a feeling I'm going to regret this, but as someone on that instance with no current plans to move, I feel like there are some things those who are considering it may not be taking into account. There are loads of patronizing comments that people on this instance are "doing the Fediverse wrong". No, we're not. You can't have a democracy while telling others their vote is wrong/doesn't count.