rail 🦊 on Nostr: that may not be too obvious, and doesn't need to be backed by bad intentions in any ...

that may not be too obvious, and doesn't need to be backed by bad intentions in any way

it can be entirely well-intended and presented to you for example as "you need to get fixed", "you need to get your shit together", etc. kind of attitude

sure, you might need help and support with some things for your own development and having someone supportive with you is very valuable

however building a mutual relation on that constant reminder that you as you are right now are broken and you need to change is inherently forcing you to erase yourself in a way and put on a mask