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2025-01-30 10:08:33

edited_by_querschnitt on Nostr: Imagine you are in a strange city. Someone comes up to you and asks you for money - ...

Imagine you are in a strange city. Someone comes up to you and asks you for money - he promises to give it back to you later. Would you trust him?

Probably not.

Why?

Because you don't know him.

But that's exactly what many people expect online. They post a few times, create a website and wonder why nobody buys.

Trust doesn't happen overnight - neither offline nor online.

But while it often grows after just a few encounters in the real world, it often takes months digitally.

Online, the natural mechanisms that accelerate trust are missing.

👉 B2B:
In the business world, it usually takes several face-to-face meetings to create a basis. A handshake, a coffee together, perhaps a recommendation - and after weeks or a few months, a collaboration is established.

👉 B2C:
In retail, a friendly conversation, a good first impression or a recommendation from friends is often enough to influence a purchase decision.

👉 Private:
People quickly gain trust offline through body language, tone of voice and shared experiences. A brief conversation is often enough to assess whether you like someone.

And online? Things are different there.

❌ No spontaneous encounters:
You can't run into someone by chance. You have to actively become visible.

❌ No body language:
People can only assess you through your content, words and behavior over time.

❌ No instant social validation:
In the real world, we trust recommendations from friends. Online, it takes reviews, social proof and consistency to build the same trust.

How do you build trust online?

✅ Show yourself regularly:
No one trusts a profile that only appears sporadically. Be present, be active.

✅ Provide real added value:
Help your target group before you ask for something. Good content shows competence and commitment.

✅ Stay authentic:
Too perfect is suspicious. Show rough edges - they make you approachable.

✅ Patience instead of pressure:
Trust grows with time. If you sell too early, you come across as pushy.

Trust is always a process - offline and online. Only digital simply requires more patience and consistency.

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