Ben Wehrman on Nostr: The most difficult aspect of the dating dance for men, from both my personal ...
The most difficult aspect of the dating dance for men, from both my personal experience and talking to other dudes:
Finding the balance between confidently pursuing the girl you're interested in, while not chasing so hard that you convey neediness/scarcity mindset.
It's a catch-22 at its core, and the target is always moving as every woman has a different sweet spot they want a guy to hit before they reach the "ick zone"
The best way for guys to improve their success rate is by simply practicing, and learning how to play that balance/get better at finding that sweet spot quickly & efficiently in the interaction.
When in doubt, always default on "playing it cool". Or if it's easier, just ask yourself: "What would James Bond do?"
#dating #datestr #masculinity #femininity
Finding the balance between confidently pursuing the girl you're interested in, while not chasing so hard that you convey neediness/scarcity mindset.
It's a catch-22 at its core, and the target is always moving as every woman has a different sweet spot they want a guy to hit before they reach the "ick zone"
The best way for guys to improve their success rate is by simply practicing, and learning how to play that balance/get better at finding that sweet spot quickly & efficiently in the interaction.
When in doubt, always default on "playing it cool". Or if it's easier, just ask yourself: "What would James Bond do?"
#dating #datestr #masculinity #femininity