mar 🇺🇲🇨🇦 on Nostr: There isn't really an easy way. At the beginning I wanted to use paid relays only but ...

There isn't really an easy way.
At the beginning I wanted to use paid relays only but there isn't that many paid relays and I couldn't find a list.
I gave up I decided to just use the free relays. The free relays are good enough and offer pretty much the same as the paid relays.