BBuell on Nostr: Great question, and I don’t think anyone has provided this proactive approach yet, ...
Great question, and I don’t think anyone has provided this proactive approach yet, so let me take a stab at it. First, understanding that sometimes “coaching” your significant other on something she isn’t an expert at or isn’t passionate about is difficult. For example, when racing MTB professionally I did not personally teach my wife how to ride. She wanted to improve her skills, so we found a women’s camp for her to attend with a coach she would learn from without taking criticism personally. Additionally, the financial investment motivated her to really take it seriously and overall it was a very empowering, positive experience. I can absolutely relate as anytime I attempt to seriously communicate about this topic with my rebel wife it can only be on her time, and I’ve learned that collectively scheduling a time is half the battle. The other isn’t exactly the how, it rather who is “coaching” her through this information. I’d recommend a service like
thebitcoinway (npub1lrj…mzx2) to assist in inheritance planning. Similarly to creating a family will/trust, having an expert to guide you both through the process is well worth the up front investment. In my experience their team is exceptional when it comes to respecting your privacy and will not compromise sensitive information. Perhaps, your system could improve, simplify and ultimately this could lead to more peace of mind knowing that if you were to get hit by a bus your family would be taken care of. PS, watch out for buses!
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