poet of the fallen moon on Nostr: a while back, I started asking people "what do you like to do?" or "what excites ...
a while back, I started asking people "what do you like to do?" or "what excites you?" or "what kind of stuff are you interested in" instead of the tired old "what do you do for work?" and the way they light up is pure gold.
on the flip side, when someone opens with "so what do you do?" I intentionally talk about my hobbies and interests instead of work. they always get startled at first but the conversation inevitably turns warmer and deeper.
on the flip side, when someone opens with "so what do you do?" I intentionally talk about my hobbies and interests instead of work. they always get startled at first but the conversation inevitably turns warmer and deeper.