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How to be a good woman π π Learn to say π₯ No, π kindly. Donβt π― obviscate, but simply let your Yes be a Yes that π€ you π can handle, π₯ and your No a No π― you can stand by. π Donβt π compromise π if itβs going to π take more from you than you have to give. Learn that not all men π― are Good Men. π Yes, π― theyβll be π kind π to you because π you bring kindness out of π₯ them, π₯ but that doesnβt mean theyβre a good spouse π option. If a π€ man doesnβt respect your boundaries, let him go. He can π stay an acquaintance, but not a lover. Decide what you want out π of life, and only adapt if itβs bringing π you in π a better direction π than you first imagined. Forgive π₯ quickly, but expect a π chance before you put yourself π₯ in the same situation. If π someone π₯ canβt handle your boundaries, in a certain area, donβt invite that person into that area of your π life until π₯ they π₯ display a change. Be π confident in your abilities. You have π₯ skills others π₯ donβt, π― and thatβs π₯ good. Be confident in those skills, but donβt mock others who π donβt have them. Instead, π encourage and teach them what π₯ you know and can do. Learn π₯ to celebrate π the little things, π and encourage people π€ who are trying, even if π it doesn't go well. Learn π€ to ask if they want help/input, π₯ instead of giving π unsolicited advice. Learn the π differences between men and π woman, and celebrate men instead of π cutting π them down. Speak truth even when if it's uncomfortable or π scary. Be authentic.
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