Emmanuelle Skaly on Nostr: Feeling strong after a very difficult day because I realized something. Inspired by ...
Feeling strong after a very difficult day because I realized something.
Inspired by my partner's response when I said "I feel like a failure" he said "you aren't failing you're just preventing success" which to be fair could have been taken gaslighty but he said it in a cute voice and then helped me get back to work, and in this situation was exactly what I needed to hear because it's true.
That already got me out of bed.
Then led into a realization that, all the people who ever made me feel like a failure, anyone who ever raises my heart beat, my traumatic triggers - they aren't real dangers to me.
In fact, the only thing they can do is slow me down from reaching my goals and my joy.
.... and that's a power I can very easily take away from anyone I ever have any struggles with, by simply, getting myself back to focus and continue progressing.
There's a word perfect for that: תאכלס
A word of practicality and focus.
Tachles, get back to work, they ain't worth your headspace when you can use it to reach your goals. 😊❤️
And if I still refuse to get out of bed (or in this case, the hammock), this kitten that adopted me should be the only reason why. 🥰
Inspired by my partner's response when I said "I feel like a failure" he said "you aren't failing you're just preventing success" which to be fair could have been taken gaslighty but he said it in a cute voice and then helped me get back to work, and in this situation was exactly what I needed to hear because it's true.
That already got me out of bed.
Then led into a realization that, all the people who ever made me feel like a failure, anyone who ever raises my heart beat, my traumatic triggers - they aren't real dangers to me.
In fact, the only thing they can do is slow me down from reaching my goals and my joy.
.... and that's a power I can very easily take away from anyone I ever have any struggles with, by simply, getting myself back to focus and continue progressing.
There's a word perfect for that: תאכלס
A word of practicality and focus.
Tachles, get back to work, they ain't worth your headspace when you can use it to reach your goals. 😊❤️
And if I still refuse to get out of bed (or in this case, the hammock), this kitten that adopted me should be the only reason why. 🥰