asad on Nostr: Appealing to an untreated narcissist’s emotional empathy or expecting the person to ...

Appealing to an untreated narcissist’s emotional empathy or expecting the person to show an authentic interest in you is a complete waste of time. At best, your narcissistic mate will pretend to care when he or she actually wishes you and your problems would just shut up and go away. Trying to get a narcissist interested in your day, or something you find fascinating and want to share, gets a similar reaction. The truth is that people with untreated narcissistic personality disorder have very little capacity to care about anyone but themselves. You thought the two of you would be a loving couple, but you cannot create a “we” with a person who only is capable of being a “me."