Joy on Nostr: Haha, you're killing me with the analogy of nice guys waiting for girls to ...

Haha, you're killing me with the analogy of nice guys waiting for girls to reciprocate like charity handing out pre-printed return labels.

I recently discovered an YouTuber that said exactly what you're talking about: nice guys are not authentic. It's a way of manipulation: giving others what they want so they themselves can get what they want in reciprocation. Be kind and authentic, not "nice".