yoniji on Nostr: i once met this dutch 28 year old woman in algarve on a camping place. she had yoga ...

i once met this dutch 28 year old woman in algarve on a camping place. she had yoga and coffee on her beautiful 1978 vw van. i went over and she invited me to come again at 8pm to have a coffee and chat. i was on the road and came back on time. her response was i still have to work. although it was clear she just wasnt interested really. women are assholes just as men. a few months later i got an important spiritual download. something called toxic metaframing. a lot of people do that. they pretend to feel more important than you and therefore put you down in various ways. from that point on i can see beforehand who is toxic for me and who isnt even before i get to know them. and i learned in todays society over 50 to 80% of people are toxic.