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How to tell the difference between a Good Man, and a Nice Guy 🤔
When you ask a man to help you with something, a good man will tell you Yes, because he wants to help you, but a nice guy will say Yes, because he has a hard time saying No. The Nice Guy will go away grumbling about it, whereas the Good Man will be proud of having helped you. The Good Man understands and values boundaries, whereas the Nice Guy has a hard time with boundaries.
The Good Man will ask you on a date, whereas the Nice Guy will ask you to hang out. He might as you to coffee, but he’ll rarely use the words date.
There is a scale between being Nice Guy and Good Man, and most Nice Guys move towards being Good Men as they grow in confidence, but if you’re a lady picking a potential spouse, don’t pick a Nice Guy hoping that he’ll chance, pick a man who is already at the level you want him, as expecting him to chance is one of the top mistakes women make when choosing a partner.
When you ask a man to help you with something, a good man will tell you Yes, because he wants to help you, but a nice guy will say Yes, because he has a hard time saying No. The Nice Guy will go away grumbling about it, whereas the Good Man will be proud of having helped you. The Good Man understands and values boundaries, whereas the Nice Guy has a hard time with boundaries.
The Good Man will ask you on a date, whereas the Nice Guy will ask you to hang out. He might as you to coffee, but he’ll rarely use the words date.
There is a scale between being Nice Guy and Good Man, and most Nice Guys move towards being Good Men as they grow in confidence, but if you’re a lady picking a potential spouse, don’t pick a Nice Guy hoping that he’ll chance, pick a man who is already at the level you want him, as expecting him to chance is one of the top mistakes women make when choosing a partner.