terra tauri (she/her) on Nostr: people in my area call it "ethical non-monogamy" instead of polyamory and i don't ...

people in my area call it "ethical non-monogamy" instead of polyamory and i don't like it

i guess it more expansively defines the experience - because like you might have encounters with people who you don't love? idk...

the "ethical" part kinda annoys me for some reason that i cannot quite elucidate; despite thinking that consent and communication within agreed boundaries are paramount