Jeroen 🫖🐸 on Nostr: Finding a partner in life seems such a paradox... 1. Make an active efford and it ...

Finding a partner in life seems such a paradox...
1. Make an active efford and it won't happen because you're looking for it.
2. Don't make efford because 'it will happen when you won't expect it'

1. Feels like wasting energy.
2. Feels like giving up, trusting faith, risking to be alone forever.

It seems to be the problem in life I can least control.