purrs_for_Her on Nostr: hmmm thanks for sharing your perspective. i think it comes down to your understanding ...

hmmm
thanks for sharing your perspective.

i think it comes down to your understanding of D/s (which is relatable because there is so much bad information)

so let me ask you this question:
i'm a submissive man—do you believe i have no autonomy or responsibility in my relationship or in my life? that i'm just another child for my Wife to take care of?

i just ask because i'm wondering if you think of submission in this context as something passive, rather than a conscious, autonomous choice.

i mean, i provide for my family.
i'm an active father.
i do my best to actively support and fulfill my Wife emotionally.
and i don't need to be reminded to do basic household chores.
my submission is active—it is my expression of love.