Queen Of Coffee on Nostr: I find that as a middle-aged woman I often feel invisible. Like my identity doesn't ...

I find that as a middle-aged woman I often feel invisible. Like my identity doesn't exist outside of being someone's mom, wife, employee. I'm no longer hot enough to get noticed, but I'm not crone-like enough for extra care. People notice the roles I play in their lives, but not me as a person, despite being quite loud and rather quirky.

While it's nice to fly under the radar sometimes, I'm kinda feeling a bit aggravated by it lately. I have a nagging sense I've been excluded (probably unintentionally) from fun.