Carrie Shanafelt on Nostr: npub1gmx4v…jatcq My parents encouraged me to fight my bullies, and I did some, but ...

npub1gmx4vz0z4waf3ff40j7vdy7stdn4c0gne6lkd0pwtae46lzph4mqajatcq (npub1gmx…atcq) My parents encouraged me to fight my bullies, and I did some, but I got out of the really extreme stuff because there was a man in my church who had been beaten up so badly by a bully in school that he couldn't read and had migraines for the rest of his life. Severe brain damage. People who love violence don't realize that it has to be the last resort because actually us soft victim types don't tend to win a lot of combat.