Roman Simon on Nostr: Take the fear of talking to women, for example. What happens if you approach a girl ...

Take the fear of talking to women, for example. What happens if you approach a girl on the street and start talking? You may feel uncomfortable and embarrassed. And?..

The problem starts after the embarrassment, when you start fighting yourself inside your mind. It is not external, it's internal. We don't trust ourselves, can't communicate clearly, and are hostile to ourselves. We are actually much more hostile than the outside world.