Cristalina on Nostr: “No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. ...
“No one changes unless they want to.
Not if you beg them.
Not if you shame them.
Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love.
There's only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to do it.
And there's only one time when it will happen: when they're ready.”
— Lori Deschene
#NightNight
Published at
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