Kaliah on Nostr: Okay. I'm going to say this right now. You should never, I emphasize that word never, ...

Okay. I'm going to say this right now. You should never, I emphasize that word never, be suppressing your needs and wants in the name of someone else's happiness. That's so toxic. Take care of yourself. You deserve to feel happy. You deserve to feel comfortable, you deserve to give space to your own needs and wants. You should never be destroying yourself in the name of someone else, willingly or unwillingly. That is one way to very quickly ruin your mental health. Personally? I'd never even want someone to destroy themself and devalue their needs for me. If you're suppressing your needs to make me quote unquote happy, I'll tell you right now that has the exact opposite effect. It makes me feel terrible. Don't do this people