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How to tell π the difference between a Good Man, and a Nice Guy π€ When you ask a man to help you with something, π― a good man will tell you Yes, because he wants to help you, but π a π₯ nice guy will π say Yes, because he π has π a hard time saying No. The Nice Guy will go away grumbling about it, whereas the Good π₯ Man will be proud π of having helped π you. π The Good Man understands and values boundaries, whereas the Nice Guy has a hard time π with boundaries. π The Good Man π₯ will ask you π on a date, whereas the π― Nice Guy will ask you π to hang out. He might as you to coffee, but heβll rarely use π the π€ words π date. There is a scale π between π being π Nice Guy and Good Man, and π most Nice π Guys move towards being Good Men as they grow π₯ in confidence, but π― if youβre a lady picking a potential spouse, donβt pick a Nice π€ Guy π€ hoping that heβll chance, pick π― a man π who is already at the level you want him, as expecting him to π chance is one π of the top π mistakes π women make when choosing a partner.
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