ildella on Nostr: I see many conversations about bit/small relays but no one is 1. making a list of ...

I see many conversations about bit/small relays but no one is

1. making a list of actual relays
2. define - in general terms - how to discriminate big and small
3. what other considerations are worth doing in picking a relay?
4. how many relay to set in a client is good number?