Jackie on Nostr: Likewise, I don’t feel insecure around gay men or transgender women unless they ...
Likewise, I don’t feel insecure around gay men or transgender women unless they have toxic personalities. I don’t believe I have anything to compete with transgender women in a femininity competition. However, having a toxic personality is a different matter. If you’re a type of person who displays deep-seated misogyny and a general antisocial mentality that’s not suitable for a citizen in a democratic society, I think it’s wiser to consider that perhaps your place isn’t in the public sphere.
If an incredibly attractive man is gay (or trans-attracted, whatever) and doesn’t develop any sexual or romantic interest in women, I quickly lose interest and move on. I think that’s a healthy mindset for anyone to have. If I hold onto a gay man who doesn’t feel anything for me romantically, I think I would feel so pathetic about myself and possibly even kill myself, because it means I have nothing else going on in my life other than developing a hopeless crush for someone who’s never going to reciprocate. I think that’s the most foolish thing I can do with my precious time.
If an incredibly attractive man is gay (or trans-attracted, whatever) and doesn’t develop any sexual or romantic interest in women, I quickly lose interest and move on. I think that’s a healthy mindset for anyone to have. If I hold onto a gay man who doesn’t feel anything for me romantically, I think I would feel so pathetic about myself and possibly even kill myself, because it means I have nothing else going on in my life other than developing a hopeless crush for someone who’s never going to reciprocate. I think that’s the most foolish thing I can do with my precious time.
quoting note1f2l…lpncI suppose this is the reason why some men harbor animosity towards lesbians. They perceive lesbians as stealing attractive women from them. So engrossed are they in their hatred for lesbians that they fail to realize that these women may never have had any romantic or sexual interest in them, regardless of their sexual orientation. (It’s likely that these men are insecure incels. If you’re an attractive man, why would you feel insecure about lesbians when you have the ability to seduce any woman you desire?)
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