npub1a9…9mqqg on Nostr: npub1ugly4…kyvd7 ugh that sucks so bad. I'm so sorry that happened to you. I've had ...
npub1ugly4qdf0h323qvmepxa2msemal32h6en5u43gr7llfmuksmrfaqtkyvd7 (npub1ugl…yvd7) ugh that sucks so bad. I'm so sorry that happened to you. I've had terrible experiences living in community with people, even people who wanted to make it work. There are so many kinds of brokenness: Alcoholism, psychotic breaks, people who bring other (dangerous, addicted) people to the community out of their own ignorance, narcissist lazy people, angry bottled-up people who can't express their frustration until it blows up all over everyone, and on and on.
I want to say that we're like children who need to get taken under the wings of extremely kind, patient, and wise parents, but it's much worse than that... we're like deeply abused children who are now basketcase adults with no safety nets or wise counsel, all stuffed together in situations that most have no preparation or training for, usually with very few resources and under conditions of duress. It's a recipe for disaster.
I want to say that we're like children who need to get taken under the wings of extremely kind, patient, and wise parents, but it's much worse than that... we're like deeply abused children who are now basketcase adults with no safety nets or wise counsel, all stuffed together in situations that most have no preparation or training for, usually with very few resources and under conditions of duress. It's a recipe for disaster.