Ryan on Nostr: #asknostr... hardest decision of my life and I have had to make the decision of end ...

#asknostr... hardest decision of my life and I have had to make the decision of end of life for both of my parents... we have fostered kiddos for 3 yrs ( on our 3rd placement).. this placement is 2 kiddos currently 3yrs and 19 months old, and we have been asked to adopt them.. easily a yes and would want to raise them as our own, except... their m.o.m. has multiple kids and it would be hard to maintain sibling relationships without maintaining the toxic relationship with m.o.m..... do we take on a toxic relationship to ensure these kiddos have a chance at a future or do we hope that some of family will take them in that could ensure a better future without the toxic relationship... at the end of the day it is our decision but some possible clarity or unthought of points of view may help.