Rabbit Cohen on Nostr: I'm gonna say something about sex that I think I needed to hear when I was younger, ...

I'm gonna say something about sex that I think I needed to hear when I was younger, which is this: unless you're currently in the act of making porn, you are not a performer. You don't have to pretend to like things you don't. You don't have to endure discomfort or pain that you don't want. Got a foot cramp or a bad itch that you need to sort out? Speak up. Is there something you'd like your partner to do for you? Speak up. Are you feeling anxious? Speak up.